Psychotherapeutic Counselling with Adults
in Staveley, Kendal and online
I am an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor, supporting adults to make meaningful changes to improve their quality of life. I draw on a range of theories and approaches, including talking therapy, somatic trauma therapy, EMDR and creative work, to offer an individualised and flexible approach that best suits your needs and preferences.
I have experience of working with adults who have experienced trauma, including childhood and relational trauma, PTSD and complex PTSD (CPTSD). I also work with people experiencing anxiety, difficulties with relationships and boundaries, low self-esteem, and other difficulties that affect their day-to-day lives.
I have extensive experience of working with neurodivergent adults, including autistic people and those with ADHD. I recognise that everyone's experience is different and work collaboratively to find approaches that best suit your needs, preferences and ways of communicating and processing experiences.
I have worked with people to support them to feel more in control of overwhelming emotions, more able to make decisions and hold boundaries, to feel more grounded and centred, to feel stable and safe, and to feel certain about being valuable, capable, lovable, powerful, and equal.
Sessions can be indoors or outdoors. Often therapy involves a mixture of settings, depending on individual preference and my availability. This is something we can discuss in our initial session and can change and adapt depending on the needs of your therapeutic journey.
I work in spaces that easily accommodate the movement between indoor and outdoor work.
What I offer
Psychotherapeutic Counselling
In psychotherapeutic counselling, we explore deeper or more complex things to work out the root of the difficulty. This process usually starts with developing a therapeutic relationship alongside developing resources and coping strategies, and then using different methods to explore what is happening, what you might want to change, how to change it, and support in changing it.
We draw from a wide range of interventions and styles to best suit what is right for you in that moment, whether it is creative, embodied, metaphorical, indoors or outdoors. We move with what you feel would be just right for you.
It can be difficult to quantify how long that journey will be, but we would usually have a review every 8 sessions to reflect and get a sense of where we are in the journey, your current needs, and where we are heading.
Shorter Therapy Options
The following are suggestions for shorter therapy journeys. Sometimes people decide after these that they want to continue with psychotherapy straight away or in the future. Each of these options can be integrated into a longer psychotherapy journey.
Coping and Calming Skills: Usually an 8-week block of sessions that includes us developing a relationship and sharing different strategies to help you to feel calm and in control.
Nature Connection-focused Calming Skills: In these sessions, we explore ways for you to feel calm and a sense of belonging using nature connection. The sessions could be for a couple of hours or done over a series of sessions, depending on your needs and preferences. You can read more about ecotherapy here.
Yoga Therapy focused on Calming and Coping Skills: In these sessions, we explore ways to feel calm and grounded using movement, mindfulness, sound, and breath. These could be individual one-off sessions or regular weekly, fortnightly, or monthly sessions. You can read more about yoga therapy here.
EMDR specific: Usually a minimum of 12 sessions. The first few sessions focus on developing resources and building a relationship, the next sessions include the EMDR process, and the final sessions are to consolidate and to end. Sometimes these sessions can be done intensively, where my availability allows, over a few days. You can read more about EMDR therapy and intensives here.
Embodied & Somatic
In the past few decades, research has shown what many cultures have long known: that our emotions are held in our bodies. Movement, gesture, walking, and embodied play can offer significant change by harnessing your innate strength and peace.
I draw on my training and many years of personal experience of somatic and embodied practices to explore ways of connecting with and expressing emotions through the body. This might include experimenting with movement, posture, balance, muscle activation and awareness of our physical surroundings. We might explore how different movements or positions affect your sense of strength, stability and connection with yourself, or how small changes in muscle activation and release can influence how you feel.
I am a Movement for Trauma practitioner, have trained in yoga therapy, and have undertaken additional CPD in a variety of embodied approaches.
I am committed to a practice grounded in consent and individualisation. Practices will be explored mutually to ensure you feel in control and within your window of capacity.
Somatic Trauma Therapy
I am a Certified Somatic Trauma Therapist, trained in Babette Rothschild's approach to safe trauma recovery.
Somatic Trauma Therapy draws on an understanding of how trauma affects both the mind and body, with a particular emphasis on safety, stabilisation and helping people feel more in control.
I integrate this approach throughout my work, using practical methods to help manage anxiety, flashbacks and other distressing symptoms. These might include learning to recognise when you're becoming overwhelmed, finding ways to stay connected to the present, or using Rothschild’s Outlining technique to explore difficult experiences in manageable stages, without having to tell the whole story at once.
An important part of this approach is developing ways to slow down or stop before things become overwhelming, building on your existing strengths and resources, and adapting our work to your individual needs.
Eco-therapy
As an eco-psychotherapist, I combine psychotherapeutic counselling with nature connection, offering sessions outdoors in the Lake District National Park.
In these sessions, the other-than-human world can take a more active role, and we may explore specific nature-connecting activities. Some people prefer not to include explicit nature-connection in their sessions, but prefer the movement of walking and being outdoors for their therapy session. We can do either, or a mix, depending on your preferences.
I understand how concerns about climate change and the future, including eco-anxiety, can feel overwhelming. In our sessions, I offer a compassionate space to explore these feelings, process your fears, and find ways to stay grounded, connected, and empowered to live in line with your values.
You can read more about ecotherapy and outdoor sessions here.
Creativity
I am trained and experienced in using a variety of creative techniques to help to express and explore feelings, parts of self, sensations and experiences creatively, as well as to gain greater control, deeper understanding and to find calm. These include:
Sandtray using miniature figures as symbols
Sensorimotor art therapy – exploring body responses and sensations through movement with art
Painting, drawing, sculpting with clay
Image-work includes using imagination and visualisation
Yoga Therapy & Mindfulness
I am trained in yoga and yogic mindfulness and have over twenty years of experience as a practitioner. Mindfulness, put simply, is paying attention to the present moment (easier said than done!). It is a powerful and ancient technique that can help alleviate various difficulties, including flashbacks, anxiety, depression, overwhelm, and panic attacks. The yogic part refers to including an intention that is around wellbeing.
For example, it is possible to do anything mindfully, but not everything is useful to your wellbeing. Mindfulness is often incorporated with nature, such as using senses to connect or with creativity to mindfully express internal feelings. I also offer individual Yoga Therapy sessions.
EMDR
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a type of therapy that helps people recover from distressing experiences, trauma, and difficult memories.
I offer EMDR as part of longer-term psychotherapy or as a specific piece of therapeutic work, including EMDR intensives. You stay in control throughout the process, and you don't need to share every detail unless you want to. You can read more about EMDR therapy, how it works and the different ways I offer it.
Relational
A safe, genuine therapeutic relationship can be a powerful mirror for understanding yourself and the way you relate to others. In our work together, I pay close attention to the patterns that naturally show up between us because they often reflect the patterns that shape your other relationships. By noticing these in a supportive, non-judgemental space, you can start to see your relationships more clearly and understand how past experiences may be influencing your present.
Using Transactional Analysis as a guide, we can explore these patterns and experiment with new ways of relating that feel more authentic. This process can help you recognise and honour your own needs, set healthy boundaries without guilt, and express yourself more openly. Over time, this awareness and practice can make your connections with others more balanced, fulfilling, and true to who you are.
FAQs
Cost
Initial session (online via Zoom): £50
The usual session fee is £80.
I also have a limited number of reduced-fee spaces available. I offer a sliding scale from £60 to £80 depending on your financial circumstances. You can choose a fee within this range that reflects what you can reasonably afford. For example, you might choose £65 or £75 rather than one of the three suggested fee bands. Please read more about how my sliding scale works and check whether I currently have a reduced-fee space available.
Number of sessions
It really depends on your individual needs and preferences. Clients would usually have a minimum of 6-8 weekly sessions and then a review.
Outdoor/ Indoor
I offer outdoor sessions in Staveley, near Kendal.
Techniques and Approaches
As an integrative therapist, I draw on a variety of theories to underpin my work and help me to develop a deeper understanding that helps guide the therapy. These include: somatic trauma therapy, transactional analysis, Gestalt, Radix Body Psychotherapy, systems theory, attachment theories, Relational Trauma Therapy, and yoga therapy (Svastha).
Interventions are highly individualised and can include: nature-connection, sandtray, movement and gesture, yoga, mindfulness, image-work, art and creativity.
Important Consideration
My working hours are:
10.15 am - 6.30 pm on Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays
I tend to work in person on Mondays, Tuesdays and Thursdays
I tend to work online and outdoors on Wednesdays
I do not work as a therapist on Fridays or at weekends, other than workshops.
I take regular breaks, usually 1-2 weeks every 6-8 weeks throughout the year, a four-week break (usually in July/ August) and time away for CPD and training. I let clients know of any absence with as much notice as possible. Please do bear this in mind when you are considering whether I am a good fit for your needs.